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At times, individuals just want to oppose. I don't know why I even bother. Should just leave things the way they are.
Try to explain something for their benefit and it's opposed with great enthusiasm. It's like they have something to prove.
I could understand if this were to happen in a debate or a discussion, but when it happens during the course of a normal conversation - where all one is trying to do is suggest an alternative approach only to simplify the task for the other person – my head just turns blank.
There is not a single logical explanation I can conjure up to explain the behaviour / reaction. Perhaps it is just the way I talk that makes the other person feel the need to oppose me with all his/her might.
Decision – provide suggestions ONLY when asked for.
Try to explain something for their benefit and it's opposed with great enthusiasm. It's like they have something to prove.
I could understand if this were to happen in a debate or a discussion, but when it happens during the course of a normal conversation - where all one is trying to do is suggest an alternative approach only to simplify the task for the other person – my head just turns blank.
There is not a single logical explanation I can conjure up to explain the behaviour / reaction. Perhaps it is just the way I talk that makes the other person feel the need to oppose me with all his/her might.
Decision – provide suggestions ONLY when asked for.
2 Opinions:
Ah, I know! :|
Make it idiot proof and someone will make a better idiot!
Sigh...
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