Tuesday, June 30, 2009

The Secret – L o r d R a j

Do everything that you are not supposed to.

That’s my new secret (came up with this last night).

If life is going to screw you over (and in my case, it already has – again and again), well do everything you shouldn’t be doing. Not that it will hurt any less, but the logic is – NOW you won’t be asking ‘ WHY ME? ’ and THAT appeals to me.

If you haven’t done anything wrong and still end up getting screwed – in addition to the hurt, you have this question hitting at you all the time – what did I do to deserve this?

The first step is Acceptance. No, not accepting that you made a mistake, but accepting that you will get fucked, no matter what you do or don’t do. Shit WILL happen. You WILL suffer even if you haven’t done anything do deserve it.

Now, I am not saying that when this happens you won’t be hurt or it won’t bother you. Sure it will. But instead of mourning and banging your head asking ‘ WHY ME ? ’ – now you just might have a hint of a smile and your head will be saying ‘ You had it coming ’.

Clink - To life - that seems worse than death (sipping from my glass and showing the finger)

*Note: To be read in conjunction with The Secret - L o r d R a j - EXPLAINED

5 Opinions:

Agnel said...

Dude, that is one crazy man's solution. Come on...

Just say, "Bring it on" :)

L o r d R a j said...

Hey Agnel,

Totally agree with you on the CRAZY MAN bit.

Life.. fighting.. and all that. Now there is a difference between facing a challenge, and getting screwed over.

It's not about how many times you go down.. what matters is how many times you get up. When you stop getting up - That's when you have lost.

THAT my friend - is about facing challenges. Overcoming challengers, obstacles. conquering fear and failure.

That is very much different from getting screwed.

Lost you job - Start over.
Got hit - HIT BACK.
Whatever YOU FUCKED UP - get back to it and do it better this time. MAKE IT WORK.

Khudi ko kar bulund itnaa.. ke har taqdeer se pehle... khuda bande se khud pooche - ' bataaa... teri razaa kya hai'

In case you didn't quite get that - it says in short - be the master - not the slave. Anything you do - do it so well - that destiny itself asks you - ' how may I serve thee '

THAT is veryyyyyyyyyyy different from what I was getting at. I would have thought THAT would have been clear.

May I redirect your attention to one of my earlier posts - My Logic -


So you see.. when the odds are against you - it's IM-probable - but definitely NOT impossible.

What I have put up in my latest post - ' The Secret - L o r d R a j ' is about the impossible.

For those - who say ' the word impossible doesn't exist in my dictionary ' - Well get a REAL dictionary. :)

Alternatively (and I love this) ' a witty saying, proves nothing '

I don't make any claims that my Secret will solve your problem. I don't even portray it as a solution. See it for what it is. The ramblings of a 'CRAZY' man. When something drives you crazy - you are not looking at a solution. You are looking for something that would help you make some sense of what is happening.

A crazy man's attempts to try to restore SOME order to his messed up state.

Trust me - the condition I am in now - IF THERE WAS A SOLUTION to remedy this situation - I WOULD HAVE DONE SO ALREADY. If a solution existed - I would have solved the problem.

Hell - even in mathematics (algebra - there are equations with NO SOLUTION) - It's called a contradiction. It's an equation with one variable that has no solution.

(google it up if you don't believe me).

The point is - Impossibilities exist. If it's IMPROBABLE - TRY till you get it right (my post titled - MY LOGIC explains that). If it's a possibility - GET TO IT. FIND THE SOLUTION (and if you can - do it with class/style.. has a wonderful effect). If it's an IMPOSSIBILITY - don't bother with witty sayings.

Napoleon Bonaparte - unquestionably got a lot of things right. But that doesn't imply that he couldn't get some things wrong. In this case - it's obvious he got a bad deal on a dictionary.

Agnel said...

Wow! That's one awesome explanation :)

I see a sane soul behind insane words. Being writers(imagining that some random blogger/internet junkie might visit your blog) we gotta be responsible.

Some crazy man would think that to be a solution and might act just crazy.

Just a word of caution mate :)

Thanks for your wonderful explanation pal!

Mathai said...

hehe, nice one. Like I heard once from a guy "if you're neck deep in shit.. take a fucking swim" :P

L o r d R a j said...

LOL.. nice one Mathai.

My version is - When rape is inevitable............... Lay back and enjoy.